Karen Willis from Rape and Domestic Violence Services NSW, Australia, says she has seen little change in the levels of domestic and family violence over the years, but has witnessed a major shift in the way police respond.
“When I was a child, the concept was that if she was a better wife or mother, then he wouldn’t have to hit her, and police would say unless he kills her there’s nothing [they] could do,” she said.
“I’m pretty sure those sorts of attitudes would not hold terribly much water anymore, and police are certainly pretty clear there are things they can do.”
Ms Willis says she has also seen a change in what women are prepared to put up with.
“What we are seeing is a massive increase in those experiencing such violence coming forward to police and support services, saying ‘I deserve better than this, this is not right and I want assistance’,” she said.
Ms Willis says the challenge is to shift the focus from women to men.
“We’ve spent the last 30 to 40 years in relation to domestic violence telling women how bad it is and how to recognise bad relationships and how to escape those relationships,” she said.
“What we now need to do is have that conversation with men, about how they can change that culture.”
Assistant Commissioner Mark Murdoch is the New South Wales police spokesman on domestic violence and an ambassador for White Ribbon, the campaign to stop violence against women.
“Men need to wake up to the fact that it is a men’s problem. It is perpetrated by men who use their power and control over women and until … they wake up to that fact, nothing’s going to change,” he said.
©Ursula Malone and Juanita Phillips, ABC News, Australia.